I wanted a perfect ending, now I’ve learnt the hard way, that some poems don’t rhyme and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity.
-Gilda Radner
I find that there is something beautiful in not knowing- it leaves room for hope and as Emily Dickinson famously wrote, “Hope is a thing with feathers”.
It’s being honest in admitting, yeah, at times we chase perfection. We want that perfect scenario, the perfect family, perfect kids, perfect draft (though I’m not sure how realistic I’m being here) and it is okay to want that.
In the chase of perfection, we shouldn’t become blind to the reality that perfection is a relative term. Not all poems that rhyme are perfect and not all perfect poems rhyme- I hope I’m making sense. And if I’m not, take it as this- you could lose your senses chasing perfection.
At the end of the day, what you’d remember most of all, what would fill the bulk of your memory is not the ending or the look of the book once you’ve written that final sentence, but the journey it took to get there. The mishaps, the spilled coffee, the messy desks and Pajama writing; it’s the smiles that curve on your lips when you recall how you ditched a friend simply because you needed to edit that first horrible draft; it’s the days when the muse decides to be your best friend and you write for all you are worth and the days when the muse takes a break and you wonder if surely, you are a writer?!
In the journey of chasing perfection, it’d do us a lot of good to remember, A perfect puzzle piece is in fact, made up of many imperfect and irregular pieces fitted together, without which it wouldn’t be possible.
This post is in response to Writer’s Quote Wednesday Writing Challenge
This was absolutely fabulous! I am blown away! ā¤ļø
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Thank you very much Silver, I am glad you are. And it’s a pleasure to share the quote. š
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Beautiful quote and I couldn’t agree more. There is a thrill in the unknown, in figuring out where the puzzle pieces fit together, and in not having all the answers.
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Thank you Jade. I know right?! I hate it but at the same time, I love the suspense on the journey of getting to know and finding out.
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What a great post! I love the quote, and your thoughts about perfection.
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Thank you very much š
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Hey I tagged you in my latest post and am very curious to hear your comments and thoughts on this topic. Link at http://wp.me/p2Mxgu-1hL
Thanks a lot š
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Yay!! I know this is late and I’m sorry. I traveled again and the network is horrible. Will definitely checkout the post and share my views as soon as I can
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Please do so!! Same here my wordpress seems to not open on mobile in anycase!!!! Otherwise hope you are well?
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“Making the best of it without knowing what is going to happen next!” Love it! And your words explained things so well…even tho there is that part of me that wants to Balk and say, BUT I DO want a Perfect Ending!! I know what you are saying and it is so true. I keep finding the same message in different posts I have read recently. Apparently I am supposed to get the message! LOL!
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Perhaps we must find beauty in imperfection, what is attainable. Nice piece Ameena š
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I absolutely agree. I think that’s a great idea rather that chasing the perfection we can atleast try to see the beauty in the imperfect. š
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Great quote!
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Thank you Mahnoor. Glad you like it š
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You’re welcome š
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That’s a great quote! It’s one of my favorites now.
Also, I’d really appreciate if you could follow my blog. š
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Thank you! Yay, it is a wonderful quote and I am glad I came across it. š
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No problem. š
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Wow! This is so beautiful and very true, Ameena:) Thank you:)
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Thank you very much Nena for reading. I am inlove with the quote
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