Quote: Everybody is a Somebody

Quote: Everybody is a Somebody

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Recently, I found this quote/poem by Emily Dickinson. It resonated with me instantly and has been stuck in my mind ever since. I don’t want to believe it-  that someone can feel so lost as to believe he/she is a nobody. But it’s true, and it happens. Emily was a great poet who lived during the 18th century. This shows and proves rather that depression and feelings of hopelessness didn’t just begin in the 21st century or with the “youth of nowadays” as they say. It is an issue that has been existing long since- for centuries.

  There are a lot of illnesses that originated in the 19th century and cure or at least therapeutic treatments have been found. So, why is this age old disease of the mind still rampant in our society? I mean even small pox which at a time was deadly is now eradicated worldwide. why is this depression gaining more ground rather than losing power? My theory, we have gotten so busy recognizing and diagnosing the signs of physical distress that we may have forgotten about the emotional ones. We can’t expect people to go about with signs on their back with the words “I feel like a nobody” written on them. What we can do is- make people comfortable enough to share those feelings, spread love and smile to dissuade those feelings.

 It doesn’t mean that every one you show an act of love or kindness to would respond in a positive way. The truth is, a lot of people don’t know what “love” is to even respond appropriately- you should’t blame them. A little patience with the love and I tell you that somebody will appreciate it, some day.

This week, how about we try to make a ‘nobody’ feel like a ‘somebody’. You know that student that eats alone, or the co-worker who seems to always be in a shell- smile at them, heck, take it a step further and say hi. If they don’t respond positively, it is okay. Like I said, some people are too broken to know what real love looks like. But odds are, the nobody’s are probably waiting for someone to realize and reassure them of their existence.

smile, spread love and be happy… Everybody is a somebody.

don’t let the voice in your head tell you otherwise. 🙂

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12 thoughts on “Quote: Everybody is a Somebody

  1. I love Emily Dickinson. My favorite poem she ever wrote is ” The Bird Came Down The Walk” so I am happy to see you write about her. I think it’s easy to feel lost in the crowd of people and feel loved as you say and Emily found that to. You know part of what I suffer from is depression so I sympathize. People don’t see how physical depression is, that it’s equal to having a limp. I really liked what you had to say and believe that everyone should feel like they are important and cared for.

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    1. She is my favorite author too, I should go check out the poem. I wasn’t diagnosed with depression but I have been at the other side of emotions and it was not pretty. Especially when I was the only one who knew the battle taking place within me. And you are right, depression is taken as a trivial matter and it’s not. Thank you so much for sharing, I love connecting with people that treat such matters with passion. 🙂

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      1. The last stanza of the poem especially is good. I had the last 2 lines engraved on my iPod. I remember studying Dickinson extensively in a modern American poetry class and just loving writing essays on her work. You are a very talented writer I look forward to reading more of your blogs.

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